creepy email addresses

[Frankie]

I thought it might be a good idea to mention that some email addresses seem negative, intimidating, or even creepy. When a gentleman decides that he would like to participate in this hobby I think he should pay attention to the signals he sends by choosing his email address. I know that some men have an account they keep for years, and some men start one just for this hobby, and either way it serves as the discretion email for "fun times".

As a lady, trying to be as safe as possible, I have found quite a few red flags on several "email addresses"

so!


A word of advice for newbies or gentlemen on a bad luck streak:


Check your email address and if it sounds like it may be unsafe in a woman's perspective then perhaps that is why you are not getting anywhere???!

for example:
knocksdownthedoor@blank.com
Iamfake@blank.com
yourlastbreath@blank.com
spyingonyou@blank.com
hellandback@blank.com
loosecanon@blank.com
twistedteeth@blank.com


I made my own version of similar emails I have received, and this is just a handful them. I'm not sure if some gentlemen have no idea how these sound, or if I should even be posting this heads up at all, and just be thankful that the red flag is so obvious?!

[enigman51]

Originally Posted by Frankie

I thought it might be a good idea to mention that some email addresses seem negative, intimidating, or even creepy. When a gentleman decides that he would like to participate in this hobby I think he should pay attention to the signals he sends by choosing his email address. I know that some men have an account they keep for years, and some men start one just for this hobby, and either way it serves as the discretion email for "fun times".

As a lady, trying to be as safe as possible, I have found quite a few red flags on several "email addresses"

so!


A word of advice for newbies or gentlemen on a bad luck streak:


Check your email address and if it sounds like it may be unsafe in a woman's perspective then perhaps that is why you are not getting anywhere???!

for example:
knocksdownthedoor@blank.com
Iamfake@blank.com
yourlastbreath@blank.com
spyingonyou@blank.com
hellandback@blank.com
loosecanon@blank.com
twistedteeth@blank.com


I made my own version of similar emails I have received, and this is just a handful them. I'm not sure if some gentlemen have no idea how these sound, or if I should even be posting this heads up at all, and just be thankful that the red flag is so obvious?!

So "paranoidmindset@blank.com" is out eh? Ah just as well I don't use that one much. I like "uncontrolledpsychosis@blank.com" much better.
I would have thought the content of the emails would be more important.

[Frankie]

Originally Posted by enigman51

So "paranoidmindset@yahoo.com" is out eh?

not for me! I like extremely cautious in a compulsive ......oh my gosh, That was you?!

[enigman51]

Originally Posted by Frankie

not for me! I like extremely cautious in a compulsive ......oh my gosh, That was you?!

uh...no...my evil twin.

[Jackie James]

Originally Posted by enigman51

So "paranoidmindset@blank.com" is out eh? Ah just as well I don't use that one much. I like "uncontrolledpsychosis@blank.com" much better.
I would have thought the content of the emails would be more important.

Exactly!

[Maggie]

Originally Posted by enigman51

...
I would have thought the content of the emails would be more important.
...

This is a good point MR E
And your jokes were quite funny and imaginative
But still
Even though we agree that the content is more important
And even though I follow through with almost every "creepy" email name and therefore do support your point in reality
This is a separate issue
Scary names are designed to solicit feelings of fear and intimidation
When you are meeting a person for the first time and you are going to be all alone, first impressions have an affect
It is just a scary presentation being put forward on purpose
Sort of like Halloween
Not the best foot to put forward when looking for an intimate encounter
That is the point I saw Frankie making and it is relevant
That is all
Maggie

[Tipper]

Originally Posted by enigman51

I would have thought the content of the emails would be more important.

I guess I would disagree-I think how you present yourself is quite important, and I do evaluate people based on this, whether it's your e-mail address or whether you attempt to dress appropriately for a specific occasion or event. When looking at resumes, there are many that I delete based simply on their e-mail address. Similarly, when I call someone and get an obnoxious message for voicemail it affects how I deal with them. I've called someone to set up a job interview and had voicemail tell me "if I know you leave a message, if I don't know you fuck off". So I followed directions and fucked off. I may have missed a great employee, but I don't like the odds.

Tipper

[enigman51]

I guess I better change my CB radio handle then.

and I'll get an email imawonderfulguy@blank.com

sigh and I so liked frozendevilspawn@blank.com

[Maggie]

Originally Posted by enigman51

I guess I better change my CB radio handle then.

and I'll get an email imawonderfulguy@blank.com

sigh and I so liked frozendevilspawn@blank.com

Although you appear to have a fondness for playing the devil's advocate, I think you have made a good point
A picture is worth a thousand words
Both are kind of freaky handles MR E
Why should one be worse or better than the other
The first, the wonderful guy, could actually be the evil twin you spoke of
The second could be a great guy wishing he was naughty
If I was forced to choose, I would go for the duo package
I just cannot figure out what your C & B handle has to do with a radio?
But you sure did illustrate the good , the bad and the chubby eh
Thank you MR E
Twas "A" pleasure
Maggie

[Tipper]

Originally Posted by enigman51

I guess I better change my CB radio handle then.

and I'll get an email imawonderfulguy@blank.com

sigh and I so liked frozendevilspawn@blank.com

No you don't have to do anything. I didn't say anyone was wrong, I said I choose to disagree. Please forgive me.


Tipper